JLH!It seems like just yesterday I woke up groggy as could be with you and our new dog, Jazmin staring at me. You were kneeling on the ground trying to finagle this beautiful sparkling ring on Jazmin's collar in attempt to pop the question. Had I just kept my eyes closed for a few more minutes, the whole thing might have gone off without a hitch but that's just not the way we roll, is it?
It seems in the 3 years we've been married, not much has gone according to
our plan but that doesn't mean that it hasn't gone the way it's supposed to. Or that it isn't even
BETTER than any plans we could have ever dreamt up. It's perfect. Perfection.
We've been through more in our 3 years of marriage than most people have gone through in 50 years of marriage. You've stood by my side through surgeries and I've held your hand when you were coming out of open heart surgery. When the majority of couples have to face open heart surgery, it's usually when they are older and all of their children are grown and out of the house. Well, we had both of our baby boys in my tummy still! I was just 20 weeks pregnant and you were terrified that you wouldn't make it to see your boys being born. I knew that God wouldn't do that to us. He wouldn't have brought us that far and answered so many of our dreams only to take you away from us before they were born.
I remember you being so nervous, too. You weren't sure you'd know what to do with the babies. You were worried because you'd never really been around babies, let alone changed a diaper! I always knew you'd be a wonderful father....but I never could have imagined how great you'd really be!


Here is just a short list of things I absolutely love about you:
The way you listen. And I mean really listen.
How you smile every time you see Jackson, Aiden or me.
You are one of the smartest people I've ever met...and I know you weren't this smart when we got married!! ;o) You amaze me on a nearly daily basis on your vast amount of knowledge on everything! And I can't say I've ever seen you finish a book...
That without question, complaint or argue, you put your family first.
How you can read what I'm thinking and how I'm feeling just by looking in my eyes.
How you know that I need alone time sometimes and you actually make sure it happens without me having to ask.
The way you make me feel as if I'm the only woman in the world.
How truly beautiful you make me feel.
That I have a true best friend in you. I know I can tell you anything and I know you will always be there to support me. We might disagree, but you always at least respect my opinion.
How you always look forward to spending time with your family. You can't wait to get home and roll around on the floor with our sons. It's one of the most beautiful things and I'm lucky enough to get to experience this and see this daily.
How you always as me how I'm feeling because you really want to know. Not just out of habit.
I want you to know how loved and appreciated you are. Thank you for every single thing you do. You are the very best husband and father I could have ever dreamt of. It makes such a huge difference in all of our lives.